Sunday, November 27, 2011

A Whirlwind Blew In

...And took the last year with it.  So much has happened in the last 18 months, I almost can't believe it myself. 

A parting of lives occurred, quite unexpectedly civilly.  I was very sad for it to end, but we both needed it.  I feel that both of our lives were suffering and we could be so much happier apart.  After it was discussed and agreed, a huge tension was lifted.


A reconnection happened, also quite unexpectedly.  Turns out, this was what I've always wanted, and needed.  I realized that just because you have plans, that doesn't mean that is how things should be.  Sometimes when your plans fail, you get exactly what you've always wanted. 

I started school again in January, getting two more classes out of the way, and another two in the fall.  In between terms, I moved to a new home.  While settling in, we found out there will soon be three of us in our new little family. 

I have also been folded in to one of the most loving and welcoming families I have ever known.  Even more than a year in, I am still overwhelmed by the joy in this family. 

The next year brings another whirlwind with more exciting changes, but I see it coming this time.  Hopefully, I won't get so caught up I can't stay caught up.